It was Father’s Day just over a week ago, and I was able to spend some time with my Dad. He’s edging ever-closer to ninety, and I am aware that the number of Father’s Days we have to left to celebrate are rapidly reducing. It makes each one even more important. This was year it was particularly important to me to recognise the role that my Dad plays in my life because my Mum has recently moved into residential care. It’s been a huge change for them both. And I am struck by how my Dad’s network has changed. The one person who was a constant in his life is no longer around all of the time. He’s now wanting to take steps to build something new. It’s not easy. But, when the power of supportive networks is so great, what are you doing to build yours?
There’s a lot written about the importance of networks, both personal and professional. Firstly, networks give us a sense of belonging. Our networks connect us with people with similar interests and goals. Secondly, networks can lead us to make connections with people we might otherwise not have met. And who knows where that might lead. Thirdly, networks allow us to reinforce our identity. We mix with people with shared beliefs and values. Finally, networks provide that support and guidance which we might struggle to find elsewhere.
The lack of networks is an increasing challenge. A growing number of people feel lonely and isolated. Critically, breaking out of the isolation and finding networks can be a real challenge. Crucially, you have to know where to begin. And at times when money is tight, it can feel like an insurmountable obstacle.
The benefits, though, are worth the effort. Being part of and engaging with your networks helps provide purpose. I’ve repeatedly spoken about the importance of purpose in blogs and my podcast. It gives us a reason to get up in the morning. Indeed, purpose gives us reasons to move through life and the challenges that life brings.
If you’re part of a network or you know what to do to become part of one, do it now. It you are not sure, book an initial consultation here, and then take the next step. You know that you can do it, and you know that it makes sense, don’t you?
